We are taught to strive. Push. Make things happen.

We pretzel ourselves in so many ways to do what must be done.

You create success in your life, so you keep with the model.

And then something happens.

The baby you want doesn’t come.

So you work the strategy harder. Research. Strategies, both Western (medicated cycles) and Eastern (Yoga, Acupuncture, Nutrition, Diet). Pushing. Striving. Trying to make a baby happen.

And you still don’t have a baby.

This is the Do-ing model of conceiving. While it creates success sometimes, if it hasn’t for you, I’d like to introduce you to a new model of creating a baby.

This is the model based on Be-ing.

In this model you don’t push and strive. You focus instead on nourishing. Enriching. Amplifying your inner fertile environment.

I call it the model Be-ing Fertile.

There are seven core principles of Be-ing Fertile and I’d like to share them with you. Starting today, and then once a week, I’ll share one principle.

Let’s get started with the essence and tool for the first core principle of Be-ing Fertile.

Core Principle 1: Engage the Divine

Infertility is a mind-body-spirit imbalance. So many strategies for infertility do not engage the spirit portion of your Being. This isn’t about religion. This isn’t about asking for a miracle. This is about learning how to engage the power of *your* connection with the Divine.

You don’t have to do this alone. You don’t have to make a baby happen. Your job is to create your desire and stay in alignment with it (more about this in the upcoming core principles). The Divine’s job (Universe, God, Tree) is to work the magic behind the scenes. Remember to engage the mystery part of conceiving. You carry this connection with the Divine within you. Always.

Use this graphic to help you remember:

If you are willing, this week practice engaging with your Divine connection.

I’ll be back next week with Principle Two of Be-ing Fertile.

Jennifer Bloome is a Fertility Expert helping women energetically balance and heal their mind, body, and spirit to boost natural fertility. Jennifer is the creator of the internationally recognized Journey of the Heart series of guided meditations to support women in all stages of fertility treatment and pregnancy. For 3 no-charge guided meditations as well as information on teleclasses or individual sessions, please visit http://www.anjionline.com.