Hand holding tree saplingDo you ever pick a theme for your year? A focus to help you draw what you want into being?

When you’ve been trying to draw a baby into being for some time, simply picking “Baby” as your theme for the year may seem simplistic as well as somewhat unsafe. Unsafe because it’s been a desire for a while and your heart can’t take any more disappointment.

Yet, you don’t want to not focus on drawing a baby in, because you still have that strong desire for a child. How can you not do all you can to have your baby?

Only a small amount of conflict, right?

Here’s my suggestion. What if instead of focusing on “baby,” or doing to create your baby, you focused on Fertile Be-ing. Meaning, focusing on creating the most fertile internal environment, the most fertile you possible.

What does this look like?

  • Knowing why you do (and don’t) want a baby.
  • Regularly creating deep peace in every cell of your body.
  • Identifying the habits of thought and patterns of emotions that take you out of the place of deep peace.
  • Inviting the Divine to help you co-create your child.
  • Knowing when to take action and when to stay still and receive.
  • Listening deeply to your body, knowing what it needs to support a healthy pregnancy and baby.
  • And more.

Clearly, this focus takes some time. And perhaps that creates a little more conflict within you, “but, I need a baby now. I’m running out of time.”

To address that conflict, if you are willing, I invite you to take a moment and close your eyes. Take several deep breaths. Ask your body to show you what a difference even taking two to three months to focus on being a Fertile Be-ing would be. How would life change? How would your body change? How would your emotions change? How would you be supported?

I’ve witnessed the miracles in my client’s lives as they make this switch. Therefore, my commitment to the Anji community for 2014 is continually to bring resources to you that help you step more fully into being a Fertile Be-ing.

Jennifer Bloome is a Fertility Expert helping women energetically balance and heal their mind, body, and spirit to boost natural fertility. Jennifer is the creator of the internationally recognized Journey of the Heart series of guided meditations to support women in all stages of fertility treatment and pregnancy. For 3 no-charge guided meditations as well as information on teleclasses or individual sessions, please visit http://www.anjionline.com.