Mon 7 Mar 2011
In order for healthy conception to occur, your mind~body~spirit system must be open, communicating, and supportive of your intellectual desire to conceive. Each aspect of the system can place ‘stop signs’ to conception. Now, that’s anthropomorphizing in a big way…and yet, our mind~body~spirit system is a very alive system that has many moving parts, all working together to bring your heart’s/soul’s desire to physical existence.
What gets in the way of this happening? Why WOULDN’T your system work towards creating your heart’s desire?
The simple answer to this question is: safety.
Your mind~body~spirit’s main job is to keep you safe and alive. It’s easy to think of some forms of safety: keeping you from stepping out in front of a bus, or deciding not to slip into bath water that makes your foot reflexes recoil from water so hot you would burn your skin. But what if safety came from your belief that you can’t share your true thoughts? Or it was more important someone else be happy than you? Or if something comes easily to you, you don’t deserve it?
Where do these beliefs come from?
Life experience. And not necessarily even your OWN life experience.
Most of our beliefs are in place by the age of seven. Some people even say three. So as an adult, you’re making decisions and beliefs from a child’s point of view.
What’s more: the part of the brain responsible for recording emotions begins developing from the second day of conception. Can you have emotions this early? Your Mother did. From very, very early on in your Mother’s pregnancy with you, you were picking up on her emotional experiences and her vibrations.
If there was some stress and then some relief, and then some stress and some relief, then you learned that when stress happens, peace isn’t far behind. But, if there was a lot of fear and worry, and no relief—your very basic systems learned that the world isn’t a place to be trusted.
By the age of three you already developed the “lens” that you look at life through.
Add to that the other beliefs that you may have learned as you are growing up: keep quiet. Children are a hassle. You can’t have what you want. These beliefs weren’t yours to start with; they simply came with your experience.
You might begin to think you are doomed. Or I’m telling you to place blame squarely on someone else’s shoulders. Not at all.
The idea is to begin to take a look at your own beliefs about the world. Are they really true? What do you really want to believe? How could NOT getting pregnant seem like a safer solution to your body than GETTING pregnant?
That last question’s a doozy. At least it can be when you haven’t thought about conceiving from a mind~body~spirit perspective. The first step is to find the beliefs. The next step is to begin to build new beliefs and remove those stop signs your body thinks are keeping you safe.
You hold the power to change the lens through which you see the world. The lens that creates the beliefs that can create the stop signs to conception. How wonderful will it be to clean house of the beliefs that are creating things in your life that weren’t even yours to begin with?!
Jennifer Bloome is a Fertility Expert helping women energetically balance and heal their mind, body, and spirit to boost natural fertility. Jennifer is the creator of the internationally recognized Journey of the Heart series of guided meditations to support women in all stages of fertility treatment and pregnancy. For 3 no-charge guided meditations as well as information on teleclasses or individual sessions, please visit www.AnjiOnline.com.